Blending Cultures and Traditions: My Family’s Lunar New Year Journey

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Chinese New Year (CNY), also known as Lunar New Year, is set to take place on the 10th of February 2024, marking one of the most widely celebrated festivals. According to the Chinese zodiac, it is the year of the wood dragon, symbolizing charisma, strength, and ambitions. ๐Ÿ‰

Although my family is of Chinese ethnicity, they migrated from Cambodia to Germany in the 1970s. Therefore, they traditionally celebrated the Khmer New Year, which typically starts mid-April. The rituals associated with this celebration share similarities to the Chinese Lunar New Year. Growing up, my family never had the chance to experience the traditional CNY celebrations back in their homeland in China.

As a result, my experiences with CNY celebrations blend Chinese traditions, my family’s unique flair, and the Western lifestyle.


Let me walk you through some of our traditions:

Red Envelopes (Hong Bao)

The tradition of red envelopes filled with money has always been a staple in our household. Elders generously give to the younger members, and once you are married, you find yourself giving as well (it is not just about receiving anymore). The amount inside matters less; it is more about the gesture.

During our visit to Toronto last year, I picked up some new envelopes from Chinatown. The collection of beautiful designs caught my eye, each carrying its unique meaning, whether for marriages or birthdays. Our baby boy received plenty this year and is so excited, although I think he is more fascinated by the cute logos.

Honouring and Paying Respect to Ancestors

This time holds great significance for us as we honour our ancestors. A lot of food and drinks are being prepared on a big dining table and are offerings to our ancestors. Our ritual starts with lighting incense sticks, kneeling and seeking blessings for the upcoming year before we start eating.

Food. And More Food

Food is a universal element during Lunar New Year celebrations across Asian cultures. There is a variety of dishes, and you cannot go wrong. Our household chefs, my mom and uncle, prepare various foods, including fried vegetables, seafood, and marinated meats. A special addition are our long noodles, symbolizing a long life, which you are not supposed to cut. This year, my husband and I even brought some German doughnuts as a dessert due to the carnival season.

Big Family Gatherings

Chinese New Year means reuniting with family. It is the time to return home, even for those living abroad. While we used to have big family gatherings when I was younger, they are now more intimate as our relatives spread across the globe.

Our family do not wear traditional clothing during these celebrations, however, we always ensure we are well-dressed and put together during this time.


As I am living abroad now, I appreciate these festive times even more. Especially since having our son, who is half Chinese, I want him to experience this side of his culture. At 18 months old, he is beginning to understand more and is super excited about everything.

Wishing everyone a Happy Lunar New Year, and let us welcome the new year with hope and optimism! ๐Ÿ‰๐Ÿงง๐Ÿฎ

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